Shalom House – Yangon / Ps Victor Lian
My
name is Van Thawm Lian @ Victor Lian and I was born in 1981 in Tang village,
Falam township, Northern Chin State, Myanmar. Unfortunately, four days after my
birth, my father passed away. I had no siblings and it was just me and my mum.
She tried her best to provide for me but life was hard for her, and eventually,
she remarried when I was two years old. Her new husband objected to her
bringing me to his home, so I was sent to live with an uncle and I lived with him
till I was 18 years old. My uncle had four children of his own and he himself
was poor; hence life was a real struggle.
When I reached my 18th birthday, I
left his home and decided to look after myself and not be a burden to anyone. I
struggled to find a job and there were times when I did not even have money for
food. I felt so helpless, angry and disappointed to have lost my father because
losing him had caused me all this misery. I really did not know what to do and
I felt utterly hopeless. Unexpectedly, one of my friends invited me to attend a
Christian Youth Campaign and, unwillingly, I went. It was during this time that
I heard about Jesus and what He did for mankind and I felt hope stirring inside
me. I accepted Jesus Christ as my personal Savior and Lord. I still remember
the date and year of my life’s turning point, which was on 16/4/ 2004. I
realized then that I have a Father who would never leave or forsake me and
would be there for me because He loves me. It was a wonderful feeling and for
the first time I had peace. I had found my Father.
Vision for Shalom Home
My
perspective of life totally changed after receiving Jesus Christ. I had only
one desire, that was to help the fatherless and the orphans and to give hope to
the hopeless, like how I had been once. Receiving Jesus Christ into my life convinced
me that the pain and bitter experiences which I had gone through have led me to
have a heart to help these children. My desire was to give children back the
joys of childhood, build their lives spiritually and give them a chance for a
better future through education. We want to empower them to reach their full
potential. In 2006 the Lord gave me another unexpected opportunity to study His
Word and I did a Bachelor of Theology course at Victory Bible College, which
took me four years to complete. After completing my studies, I was given an
opportunity to serve the Lord for one year at Victory Bible College as a
warden.
The
Lord blessed me again with an opportunity to further my studies in India and I
earned my Master of Divinity course in three years. I kept praying and seeking
the Lord for what He had planned for my life.
In 2015 God clearly spoke to my heart: “I want
you to be the hope for the hopeless”. The Lord put in me a passion for the
fatherless and orphans. I wanted to run an orphanage but I had no idea how to
start and I delayed in doing anything for two years. All the while, in my heart,
I felt like I was not obeying God.
Finally, the Lord strengthened me and I started
the orphanage on 12 March 2018 with two children; the Lord has added more
children and today, we have eight altogether in our home. We called our home Shalom Home because we want the
children to experience the Peace and
Provision of God which I have been experiencing ever since I accepted Jesus
into my life. I believe what our Lord Jesus says in Matthew 11:28, “Come to me, all you who
are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” My wife Nan Ci Oo considers
helping these children as one of the greatest privileges in our life for it is
written in the Bible, Psalm 82:3, “Defend the cause of the weak and fatherless; maintain the rights of the
poor and oppressed.” The
greatest service we can do for our
heavenly Father is to be kind to one of His Children. To quote Andy Stanley: “Do
for one what you wish you could do for everyone.”
About the Children
The children range in age from 8 to 15 years; they come from different backgrounds. Some of them are orphans while others have parents who are not able to take care for them because of extreme poverty, or being a single parent, or because of a disability of either parent. The children are from different parts of Myanmar though they belong to the Chin ethnic group. Each child has a unique story on how they became part of the family at Shalom
Home.
1. Mi Mi Htwe (15 years old) and Deborah (13 years old)
They are
sisters and they are from Hpa Kant, Kachin State. They lost their father at a
very young age and their mother, a single parent, is unable to support them, so
she sent them to Shalom Home.
3. Tang Tun Thang (12 years old) and Ro Ti San (10 years old)
These
siblings come from Matupi, Southern Chin State. Their parents are still alive
but they have no work and are unable to provide for their children.
5. Mo Le Win (10 years old) and Aa Shi Chiang @ Sai Lone (8 years old)
Brother
and sister come from Hpa Kant, Kachin State and their father is Chinese and
mother is Chin. Both the parents were involved in drug trafficking and were drug
users themselves. The children were neglected, abused and had to fend for
themselves. When their parents were caught and jailed for 23 years, the
children’s relatives sent them to Shalom Home.
7.
Val
Nai Sang (11 years old)
He is from
Kalaymyo, Sagainsg Division. His father passed away when he was eight months
old. Some years later when his mother remarried, his stepfather hated him and abused
him physically and verbally. He suffered
terribly at the hands of his stepfather with severe beatings on a daily basis
and other forms of torture. The villagers could not stand to see him suffer and
urged his mother to send him away. We were informed of his situation by the neighbor’s,
and so my wife and I went to see his mother and she agreed to let him come and
live with us.
8.
Khrih
Hlawn Sui (9 years old)
She is
from Tlortang village, Falam township, Northern Chin state. Her mother has been
suffering from a disease for many years and is often in and out of hospital.
Her father struggled with caring for his wife and daughter. They were also very
poor and whatever they earned went on the mother’s treatment and medication. When
he could not manage anymore, he sent her to us.
We thank Asian Outreach for supporting us financially and for praying for us. Every child has a right too to grow up and dream of a better future; Asian Outreach is part of their lives now, enabling us to reach out and help these children. We are so grateful for your partnership and together we will Reach, Touch and Transform the lives of these children by giving them a hope and a future. God bless you.